It was a tough ceremony for both of us. I think we're at a point now where we are able to compartmentalize our grief. It's still part of our every day, but it's no longer the focal point. We had a nice vacation, and have had many positive things to focus on lately. But the ceremony today, and Henry's upcoming birthday, bring Henry's loss back to the forefront. We both shed tears as we remembered our monster. The slideshow of all the children honored was humbling as well...so many lives cut tragically short. Some were tiny babies, toddlers, children, and teenagers. All of the families present suffered a terrible loss. Yet all are still breathing, still surviving, still living.
This week will be a tough one. We will have many conflicting emotions...happy remembering the smiles, snuggles, and milestones...sad thinking of what Henry would be doing today... Tim and I both mentioned how the remembrance ceremony program is not where you want to see your child's name. We want to see his name on a preschool graduation list, a kindergarten round-up list, a tee ball or soccer roster, a music program, a graduation announcement. As we move through this week, as always, we appreciate the prayers, thoughts, and support from our family, friends, community and followers. Thank you for being there for us!
(This is the picture we submitted for the slideshow...it just seemed to us to be classic Henry!)
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