I had my single years, when Valentine's Day posts made me a little sick to my stomach, as I tried to be independent and proud of my single status. And I had years when I was dating someone and Valentine's Day still made me sick to my stomach...because then I had to find that perfect card and gift! Now I'm married, and Valentine's Day no longer induces anxiety, but that's probably because we definitely keep it low-key.
But I do have a bit of a different perspective on Valentine's Day now. Sure, it's a commercial holiday. But it is a day to celebrate love. And there are plenty of kinds of love to celebrate. There's the kindergarten crush, the young and innocent love of life (and candy!), the first kiss kind of love, the newlywed love and the we've been married forever love, the love between friends, the love for our kids and our parents, the love of family. I am lucky to have lots of these loves in my life, and I am especially lucky to be married to THE love of my life. When I said I do, I had no idea what life would throw at us. But I know that I wouldn't be the strong person I am today without my husband by my side. So although I'm still not a huge believer in Valentine's Day, I am a believer in love, and I am thankful for all the love I've been surrounded with now and throughout my life. I hope everyone was able to find something to celebrate today, whether it's the love of a partner, a child, or of those chalky conversation hearts. Happy Valentine's Day!
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